Why Blaming Modi Won’t Make India a Better Place for Indian Muslims
It’s a trend seen worldwide – to blame the Indian Prime Minister and the country for its alleged mistreatment of Indian Muslims. I say “alleged” because certain journalists present the scenario as such – that all Muslims are being targeted and attacked. This is absurd for someone like me, who stays in the country. I…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Nonviolent Communication
Happy to announce I am now 100% nonviolent after reading Nonviolent Communication (NVC) by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg. I am also 100% lying. Because, like all good things in life, NVC takes effort. And practice. Having just finished the book, I only have an idea of what to say but no practical experience. Conflict resolution is…
Keep Reading4 Tips for NRIs on How to Effectively Prepare for Paperwork in India and Avoid Multiple Trips
I have seen a lot of NRIs (non-resident Indians) struggling with paperwork once they land in India. They get frustrated and intimidated. It was during that point I realized I (an ex-NRI) have become accustomed to the system. Probably, because I now have a way to go about it. This page aims to provide…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Taking Fewer Photos and Living in the Moment
I take a sip of refreshing chai and relish the warmth it brings. I visit a striking green paradise and breathe in the intoxicating air. I spend time laughing with my loved ones, engaging in deep conversations. Time stands still. I welcome the moment with a big smile, comfortable baggy clothes, and frizzy hair. All…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to The Street-Savvy Characters of The White Lotus (No Spoilers)
In The White Lotus S2, there are only two types of people – the ones who are street-smart and the ones who are not. The street-smart ones know how to get their way, even if it’s through unethical means like manipulation, lying, and deceit. “How do you sleep well at night knowing you did this?”…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to My Favorite Products of 2022
Since the year is almost over, I thought I would take a moment to list my favorite products of 2022. Purchases that have improved my life, delicacies I enjoyed, and things that exceeded my expectations. Most of these products are only available in India. Still, you might want to check out your local Amazon website…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Dealing with Tough Managers
Recently, I posted being concerned about my performance appraisal this year as the previous ones did not go well. I have some news to share – I finally got good feedback! This is a reason to celebrate, as my head was clouded with self-doubt over the past year, and I questioned my work quality. “This…
Keep ReadingI Created 3 Bank Accounts To Manage My Finances. Here’s How It Went.
I first read Monika Halan’s Let’s Talk Money a year back. In the book, she talked about the importance of having 3 bank accounts to manage finances. Monika Halan instructs you to transfer a part of your income every month, without fail, to your spend-it and expense accounts. This enables you to have a hands-free…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Women Taking Financial Decisions
This is a topic close to my heart. As a single woman in her 30s, I often find myself having to deal with people second-guessing my financial decisions. I am always told to consult a man before taking things further. Don’t get me wrong. I am absolutely okay with consulting experts. The keyword being “experts.”…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Ignoring Toxic People
We are often told that communication is key. People advocate the importance of openly sharing your feelings with your partners and friends, thoughts with colleagues, and so on. That’s absolutely true. You should. But what they don’t tell you is that sometimes, communication does absolutely nothing. You can talk all you want, but your effort…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Moonlighting, Sunlighting, and All Kinds of Lighting To Keep Your House Lit
If you aren’t yet aware of the term “Moonlighting,” here’s the definition – it’s you working for another company once your regular day job is over. Lately, many CEOs in India are losing their cool over their employees moonlighting. They feel cheated because they want their subordinates to function at their best capacity during day…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Rewatching Movies
It was an irregular day in my life. I had not watched any new movies or tv series in the last 4-5 days on any of the OTT platforms I had religiously subscribed to. This is huge, considering I never went a day without new content. I realized the moment you subscribe to something, your…
Keep ReadingA Review of My Annual Performance Review
After all the non-stop cribbing about my performance reviews and facing severe anxiety due to them for the last two years, I am relieved to announce that I did not get any bad reviews this year. So far, anyway. My anxiety is always on the lookout for some bad news, so it is with some…
Keep ReadingBeing a Loner in an Extroverted World
I have always been a private person, much to the chagrin of my friends. In distress, as far as possible, I prefer to process my situation without involving a second person. Venting and ranting bring relief to many, but I regain my composure by pondering over my issues – the ifs, buts, and whys. Of…
Keep ReadingThat Time of the Year Again…
My annual performance review is around the corner. And I wonder what surprise they have in store for me this time around. If you have been following my blog, you would know that my last two performance reviews did not go well. It was a bit of a surprise to hear the managers say what…
Keep ReadingThe Unseen, The Unheard
An anthem that exudes unity, Of being one, Brothers and sisters of the same soil. But the words are empty, As meaningless as a liar’s embrace. As hurtful as a kin’s animosity. As rancid as a forgotten fruit. The unseen, the unheard, Took over humanity, Over love, compassion, empathy, Burning them to dust. Any wonder…
Keep ReadingFading Friendships
Being an introvert, I often find it challenging to make friends easily. By the time I become comfortable with someone, I’m branded an arrogant snob. There is no win-win here. This was true as a youngster and even more so as an adult. The only difference is that new friendships are more challenging for grown-up…
Keep ReadingDealing with Annoying Questions When You’re Single
It’s not easy being a single woman in India. Everyone is out to advise you on how you should live your life. One hot topic is marriage. The marriage “advisors” (could range from your parents to your friendly neighborhood milk delivery guy) might fight every day with their partners but will not skip a beat…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Being Unmarried and Childless
I am in my late 30s, unmarried, and might never have a child. My biological clock is past its prime, which means that if I ever get married, it might be too late to conceive naturally. Right now, I am in a complicated relationship that I am okay with since my ultimate goal is, anyway,…
Keep ReadingAn Ode to Comestic Surgery and Embracing Distorted Realities
It’s no secret that celebrities undergo cosmetic surgeries, which are far from discreet, despite what they would like to think. The changes are always noticeable; you know when they get a procedure done. Most of them look stunning as they already are, so it is often difficult to understand why they opt for such procedures.…
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